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09-Jan-2019 19:26 by 7 Comments

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I never found it easy to ‘get’ a Japanese woman, then again, my fiancé and I met on a Japanese TV show for the express purpose of finding someone to marry.

One good option is joining a community club or activity, though then there’s no telling if they’ll fit your age range.

Also, if you check certain English language magazines like Metropolis, or certain websites, you’ll find personal ads from Japanese women who are in the market for NJ guys.

Although I’ve found a strong preference for white guys in these ads.

) So, often these troubles occur when someone didn’t get to know the person before leaping into the relationship.” “I think NJ women have to deal with stereotypes just like the NJ men here.

And often, at least according to my Japanese male friends, those stereotypes involve aggressive attitudes, impatience, sexual promiscuity, and resistance to compliance. And while some of those same stereotypes apply to NJ men, the Japanese women who are attracted to NJ men are generally (in my experience) attracted to and are frankly expecting those qualities from NJ men (and may or may not be receptive if they’re not present).

For my part, living on a small island just made things more difficult.

It takes a certain amount of commitment to start dating when everyone will know about it in a few days.When approaching women, guys often are afraid of being embarrassed or publicly rejected. If the woman isn’t interested, or doesn’t understand you (for those who don’t know any Japanese yet), she’ll just ignore you or walk away.You can simply blame it on the language disconnect and move on.” “Sometimes you don’t have to approach at all.I found it hard to make anything more than superficial connections or move past friendship.I joined in the TV show at the last minute not expecting much.I suspect, though I might be wrong about this, that it is pretty difficult for a NJ woman to conform to Japanese men’s / Japanese society’s expectations, and it is the rare case that a man will disregard these demands.