Marriage vs dating
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Yes, you do turn up at dinners together but spend the time staring at your phone than talking to each other and it is always better when other people are around.
Your wife will probably warn you that if you do not behave properly at a one-year-old’s party, no one will come to your child’s party in the future.
At the same time, looking back, I wonder if I would have saved myself some of the anguish I experienced if I had put more thought into what was really important to me and what qualities I was looking for in a relationship.
A few years later, I was ready to date for marriage.
Soon this announcement will tear through Facebook and your combined news will gather the most number of likes more than you guys ever got. After all, all the married people on Facebook are doing the same thing as you, turning up at dinner, going on trips and frequently reminding each other and the rest of the world how they miss each other while being less than a taxi ride away from each other. Can two different individuals live together without the universe exploding? Like being stuck in quicksand, you will not realize how deep you are in it till its too late. You surrender to your fate and become those grumpy middle aged men you see at the shopping mall who seem to be looking for neighboring buildings to jump from and land on a sharp object. During dating, you will discover how similar you both are and in marriage you will painfully realize that you are both different individuals with different liking.
Now marriage is a process with a high barrier to entry and even more higher and painful barrier to exit.
If you want to get clear on what type of experience you are looking for or want to have, ask yourself what your goal is; what you really want.
Whether you are interested in being in a dating relationship with someone, or you are seeking to get married (or both), you will have a much more successful experience when you take the time to get clear on who you are, what qualities you are looking for in another person, and what qualities you are looking for in a relationship.
There is nothing more dreadful than hanging out with other married couples who seemingly have lost the enthusiasm to enjoy life and whole dinner consists of small talk about irrelevant things () like investment in property and remittance rates.
Worse is when your wife tried to pair you up with her friend’s possibly boring and weird husband by pointing out common things with him.
She has been hinting for a while that you should take the relationship to the next level and looks sadly at other people getting married on Facebook.
Perhaps that would get us out of this relationship rut, you think.
I was clear about who I was and who (and I stress the ‘who’, as apposed to the ‘what’) I was looking for. I knew what I was and was not willing to compromise on.