The importance of dating

12-Mar-2019 08:40 by 10 Comments

The importance of dating

For now, though, just realize that we’re all cave-people trying to find someone to watch Netflix with.And we know in an instant if we want to be snuggled up with a person on a cave rock—or not.

Unavoidably, marriage changes the context of our relationship.

It’s important for couples to continue dating to keep a sense of freshness and adventure in their marriage.

This was a struggle for us for many years because we were entrenched in a scarcity mindset.

If I could do one thing differently over the past 23 years of my marriage, it would be to have a sense of fun around regular, affordable date nights.

Planning a date says to your spouse, “You matter to me and our relationship is worth effort.”Successful marriages require constant and continuous effort and care.

Too often, life gets in the way and their relationship gets put on a back burner. Continued dating, even if it’s economical, still helps the couple feel like they matter to each other. No matter if it’s a quick coffee at Starbucks or an evening extravaganza.

Take the time each month to nurture your marriage by taking the lead and planning a date for you and your spouse.Belle, your initial negative reaction, paired with many subsequent reactions, has given you pause—and that’s OK. It’s the human condition to be attracted to some and not to others. Let’s say, by way of example, that you meet a gentlemen who strikes you as dashing.However, to think this initial reaction is all that determines someones attractiveness (in your eyes) is giving your brain and its Creator too little credit. I mean, he’s got it all, “A body like Arnold with a Denzel face.” Whatta man!Great dates are more than going to see a movie and tuning out the world for a while.Great dates involve communicating with one another, reviving the spark that initially ignited your fire, and developing mutual interests and goals that are not focused on your careers or your children. Dating provides a wonderful opportunity for married couples to stay meaningfully connected.The problem is, I’m not physically attracted to him. Thanks for asking a question that will be helpful for a lot folks. First, you need to know a few bottom-line truths: 1.